Candle Making

Bees wax candles.


I love the smell and the positive effect of the bees wax candles.


I use only bees wax candles in my Reiki room during the Reiki sessions and classes.

Because my Reiki room is a small room, and many sick people come for Reiki sessions,
so I do not want to use the petroleum based candle, nor the candles with scent. 

When beeswax candles burn, they clean the air like a great, natural, air purifier.

To burn a beeswax candle is to enter into the wisdom world of the bee, and you enter, too, into a world of benefits from the bee. 

Compare this to breathing toxic fumes from paraffin candles.....

Beeswax candle fuel is the only fuel that actually produces negative ions, which not only helps remove pollution from the air but increases the ratio of negative ions to positive ions, the ideal and necessary scenario for clean air.

Well, I do not need to use any candle, but I like the warmth that 

the candle light give out to the room.

I used to be able to buy bees wax tea light candle for 30cents each.
It was already more expensive than regular petroleum based tea light candle that
I could buy 100pc for $7.00. (7cents each)


But the bees wax price has kept going up.




 I care about my Reiki room environment by reducing as much as chemical as possible, but 90cents per small candle became too much.




But I still wanted to use candle.  

" Hey, can I make candles ??? "

I Googled it.

"Yes, I can make candles myself! "

I got a block of Bees Wax from "Wicks and Wax" in Vancouver. 

Double boiler is the best way to melt the wax, but I use an old rice cooker.

Mean while, tie a fishing weight on the end of a wick string.

Let's have a close look.

I do not know the proper tools to make handmade candles, so I asked 

my husband (he is a plumber) to cover the end of a pipe.  

He used a scrap copper pipe and closed the one end.

Pour the melted wax into a metal pipe.

Dip and dip and dip...

After three dipping.

Cut the weight off after about 7 dipping.

Keep dipping and dipping.

Tada ~~~ !

Hand made dipping candles !  Oh my babies !

I also pour the melted wax into the tea light candle cups.

It is probably laughable for professional candle makers to see
my tea light candles that has cracks and wicks are not straight!!
But, they are my cute babies !!

While I am experimenting candle making, I learned,,,,

 Lighter colour bee's wax is OK for the tea light candles, 

but the dark colour bee's wax does not burn well as tea light candles. 

I also found that the dark colour bees wax needs thicker wicks.

It seems like there are lots to learn about the bees wax candle making!

birthday parties

Since our children started to go to school, the amount of invitations

for the birthday parties dramatically increased!

Again, I did not grow up with birthday parties, same as Halloween. 

In Japan, we don't have fun celebrations like a wedding showers,

baby showers, Easters, Halloween. 

 Birthday parties in Japan?   It is a good excuse for 
young adults to go out and have a party with friends, 
but not so much for children. 

At least, around my family, 30 years ago until
I moved to Canada 11 years ago.

Well, let me tell you, 

I think Japanese culture puts more importance
on people's death than birth.

We have more official ceremonies
around people's death.

We have the evening service to start after a person died. 
People gather in the evening of the day of a person passed away.  

Then official funerals within 2 days or so, 49days memorial service, 
then 1 year memorial service,and 3rd, 7th, 13th, 33th year 
memorial service, then finish with 50th service.

Yes, we have ceremonies to respect the ancestor who passed away 

50 years ago!

Anyways,

When I started the family here in Canada, 
I did not know what to do with all these celebrations.

Since we have 3 children, birthday parties became
part of our bi-weekly schedule.

I am so happy that my children are invited to their 
friend's birthday parties, of course!

I was having fun to go out for presents shopping, 

buy cards, bags, wrappings.

By the time we are ready for the gift, we spend quite 
a bit of money, and that was OK for me.
For some reason, spending money for other children makes
it more fun than for my own children.   " ??? "

But when I was at the party and at the present opening time,

I started to question myself, do I feel good?


"no."

Envelopes are ripped open, 

it took 30minutes to let my kids to write those cards are 
put them in a pile on the side,

wrappings are also ripped open, 
plastics packaging that can not be recycled,

"Oh no, I bought the same gift that the other friend gave."

"Ummmmmm,,,,,"

Oh, ripping open the wrappings are also not in 
Japanese culture.






When I first time saw the Canadian ways to 
rip open the gift, I thought 


"Oh no!  We can't save it anymore!"

Japanese people, we tend to open the wrappings 
very carefully. 
Peel the tapes very carefully so we don't
damage the beautiful wrapping paper.


Fold them nice an neat and 
put them in a special place.
Re-use them for other occasions.




Since I start teach Reiki, I am teaching about being
eco friendly by taking care of our own health.




Creating unnecessary garbage does not go with the teaching!

Anyway, I decided to keep Japanese ways of the gift.
But in a creative way that, maybe, hoping, people 
like the idea.

Giving money as a gift !




This way, save some gas to go shopping,
no worries for the same gift, 
birthday boy can save the money for later and 
buy something he likes, 
no producing non-recyclable plastics,
etc etc etc.

This is my creative way of gift money.




   Iron 2 x $5 or $10 bills, maybe $20 bills if I am feeling rich!

   Origami time !

   Make a gift box and put some gem stones.

    A gift basket with a gem stone looks cute, too!

   Decorate with a ribbon.

   Wrapping, just like the big gift, and make a tiny card!

   Even make an envelope with a tiny heart sticker.

As you can tell, I used to obsessed with tiny things.

 I love doll house furnitures, tiny lego binoculars and 

polly pockets shoes.

   Then wrap it again to make it look like a big gift.
   I use colourful tissue paper, so then I don't feel too bad
   when it is ripped open.

If your children receive a gift like this,
I am not being lazy, but I am trying to be eco friendly,
and introduce Japanese culture at the same time !




Dont' get me wrong, I like birthday parties,
but I just don't like the garbage that comes 
with birthday parties.